(NIV translation puts it this way:)
Where there are no oxen, the manger is empty, but from the strength of an ox comes an abundant harvest. ~Proverbs 14:4

Makes sense. But sometimes you just gotta love the King James which puts it a little better (at least for the mother who struggles with keeping up with housework and seven kids underfoot):
Where no oxen are, the crib is clean: but much inrease is by the strength of the ox. ~Prov.14:4 Heck yes. I get it.
(Key word: "Clean" the Hebrew actually meaning "pure, clear, and empty".
Are you like me? Are you constantly trying to "purify" that slimy sink, "clear" the toy strewn floors and colored paper cuttings covering your dining table, "emptying" the always full garbage, diaper pail, lint filter, etc.... and it all just keeps coming because your stables are still full of the hungry, clumsy, busy, pooping little growing oxen that "make it" faster than you can "take it"?

Our little ones will grow strong, and like the great ox, someday bring much "increase" to the Kingdom of God. In the meantime, the cribs will neither be empty, nor clean.
Look ahead to that!
Keep shoveling, make your "arms strong", but don't break your back. The house will be empty and clean someday.
And the harvest will be great!
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